Today my oldest daughter turns 25 years old. How could that sometimes sweet, sometimes sassy little girl be all grown up and 25 …. and how can I already be 52?
She has always been independent and a little stubborn, well ok a lot stubborn.
My first baby, born May 3, 1995. She was a about a week over due and had to be induced. We went to the hospital at 6:30 AM and 12 hours later we had a little human who was totally dependent on my husband and I. I will never forget the doctor handing my new baby girl to my husband and then my husband showing her off to my parents ….. hello I am the Mom and I need to see my baby! She had to be forced out and was born with a little cone head, but she was still perfect (her head shape is now fine) and it was love at first sight.
My little girl has grown up to be a caring, hardworking, loving, independent, world traveler. I could not be more proud of her. She may not have found that perfect career yet, but she is still a very loyal and hard worker and I know she will land on her feet and find her passion.
She is finding her way in the world. My girl and her boyfriend of several years are picking up and moving from our home state of Ohio to Dallas TX next month. I am really excited for them to experience this and grow in their independence and as a couple. If I am being honest, I selfishly like them closer to home, but it is not my life or my journey.
My wish for my children is that they are happy, caring, productive members of society and that they never forget where they come from. I just want them to be good people and they are.
This child made me a Mom 25 years ago. It hasn’t always been perfect, but I wouldn’t change a thing. I have a fantastic relationship with both of my adult daughters. I am grateful for my girls, my husband and the life we have made.